Wednesday, 28 November 2018

A beautiful change


A heart-warming tale of a mother-daughter relationship

‘Your mother is your first best friend’, so they say. But how many of us work towards maintaining that bond? How many of us really feel comfortable sharing all our secrets with our mothers? I moved away from home for education at 17 and stayed away for work as well and since then, I have been seeing her just twice a year, for a brief period.However, thanks to technology, we now stay in touch on an everyday basis. Even then, there are a lot of events in my life that go ‘unreported’, as she likes to put it. So recently when she was visiting me, I decided to take her for a nice dinner to one of my favourite wine-and-dine restaurants. I surprised myself when I asked her if she would like to try some wine, and she surprised me by being game for it. I don’t know when and how I got ambitious about drinking with mamma, but was glad that she was as ‘cool’ as I always thought her to be.A couple of glasses down and we were happy enough to let go of our inhibitions and spoke at length on subjects considered ‘taboo’ by most mom-daughters. It was my ‘rishta wohi, soch nayi’ moment. I also wondered if relationships between all mothers and daughters were going through the same transformation. I hope they are. For that’s what we need—an open mind and heart with a little understanding and maturity. I know I will always be her little girl. But I was happy she has let me grow up.

Thursday, 22 November 2018

Face Serum

Face Serum

You are not alone in having no earthly idea what a serum is. Even if you're the proud owner of several serums, it's not a particularly clear product on it's surface. Think of the contradictions: It's moisturizing, but you still use moisturizer. It can be oily, but it's not necessarily face oil. It can be watery, but is it essence? So many questions and we haven't even gotten to ingredient lists yet!

What's the difference between serum and face oil?
Good question. Traditional serums are water-based. Though, as the face oil trend grows (and there are more and more oils on the market), more oils are marketed as 'serums.' Office favorite Vintner's Daughter Active Botanical Serum comes to mind—it's very much a face oil. Use whichever floats your boat, with Aida Bicaj's soothing voice in your head, saying these words: "You have the water-based serums and the oil-based serums. Water-based serums go under the cream and they are so important. They nourish the inner layer of the skin because the molecule is very small so it penetrates—because of the P50, of course. The oil-based serums go on top of the moisturizer because they have a bigger molecule. They're supposed to keep the cream and whatever you put underneath moist during the entire day. There are so many products out there and everybody claims that it’s the best, so consumers are confused as to what works for them."

Tuesday, 20 November 2018

Face Serum

You are not alone in having no earthly idea what a serum is. Even if you're the proud owner of several serums, it's not a particularly clear product on it's surface. Think of the contradictions: It's moisturizing, but you still use moisturizer. It can be oily, but it's not necessarily face oil. It can be watery, but is it essence? So many questions and we haven't even gotten to ingredient lists yet!

What's the difference between serum and face oil?
Good question. Traditional serums are water-based. Though, as the face oil trend grows (and there are more and more oils on the market), more oils are marketed as 'serums.' Office favorite Vintner's Daughter Active Botanical Serum comes to mind—it's very much a face oil. Use whichever floats your boat, with Aida Bicaj's soothing voice in your head, saying these words: "You have the water-based serums and the oil-based serums. Water-based serums go under the cream and they are so important. They nourish the inner layer of the skin because the molecule is very small so it penetrates—because of the P50, of course. The oil-based serums go on top of the moisturizer because they have a bigger molecule. They're supposed to keep the cream and whatever you put underneath moist during the entire day. There are so many products out there and everybody claims that it’s the best, so consumers are confused as to what works for them."

blessing femina

types-of-makeup-brushes


Eyebrow Spoolie Brush


Ideal for taming unruly hairs, the stiff bristles smooth and comb eyebrows into form. When shaping, use to brush hairs upwards and trim the excess for neatly groomed brows.

Slanted Eyebrow Definer Brush


Sunday, 18 November 2018

when a girl who hates kids


What happens when a girl who hates kids has to babysit them for the whole day?

Since there are little or no chances of any of my five- and six-year-old cousins and nieces or nephews reading this, I deem it safe to admit here that I hate being in the company of kids.

I do not like to acknowledge this, but I’m not blessed with the patience one needs to answer their many queries. Last weekend, though, I ran out of luck when my sisters-in-law decided to go on a shopping spree and leave their kids in my care.

So here I was, on a beautiful Saturday, dealing with the tantrums of three little monsters. The best thing about being a kid is that you can come up with an idea of doing anything, anytime, regardless of how strange, insane or difficult it may be for the elders to fulfill it. So out-of-the-blue, the kids made a plan to go swimming, followed by a trip to the nearby kid’s park and then retire to their favourite ice-cream place.

Nothing I said or did deterred them. Giving in was my only option. But little did I know that this ‘day out’ I was so upset about would turn out to be legendary. The beautiful thing about being with kids, as I found out that day, is that their innocence and happiness is so contagious that it will rub off on you. That’s what happened to me. I found myself enjoying the day without a care in the world, a feeling most of us as adults can’t relate to anymore.

At the end of the day, it’s not about the places you go to or the things you do, but the way you take pleasure in just being yourself and losing yourself in the moment that makes life magical.

Friday, 16 November 2018

lipglows



wow, well this is not a product I would EVER have thought I’d be raving about! You see, I pretty much live in nude, matte lipsticks – I don’t especially love the shape of my lips (without a liner and full coverage lipstick to define them), so a sheer lip colour would not be something I would ever normally consider. Additionally, I would never normally wear any colour besides 'nude'. So when Dior gave me the opportunity to try-out 5 of their 10 new colours and finishes, I was skeptical as to how I'd get on.....


It's now been 3 weeks and I have worn a Lip Glow every day, with and without a lip liner. I have eaten, drunk, gone to the gym, gone to work - I've even gone to the sauna wearing a Lip Glow - so that I could see if these are as good as they claim to be.




Above: "Ultra-Pink" Lip Glow (without the lid)






"...the new shades are an expansion on what already exists and are now said to cater for every skin tone. This means that whatever your skin colour, there will be Lip Glows to suit you."




Dior’s Lip Glows aren’t new - first launched in 2009 they are in layman’s terms, an inked balm, allowing you to add colour with lip caring properties.

The formula contains what Dior call “Color Reviver” technology. What this means is that each colour reacts to the unique PH of your lips, and as such, every colour will look different person-to-person.

So why have Dior brought out new colours? What's changed? Well, firstly the new shades are an expansion on what already exists and are now said to cater for every skin tone. This means that whatever your skin colour, there will be Lip Glows to suit you.

But it doesn't stop there, whilst creating the new colours, three new formulas were discovered: Matte, Holographic & Satin.

The concept: to enable a hassle-free, natural look, with application so simple that you don't need a mirror to apply.


"...each colour reacts to the unique PH of your lips, and as such, everycolour will look different person-to-person."



So, do I think they’re worth it and how did I find them?

They are all very sheer; one slick applies a lovely natural glow. Something that would be perfect for the gym, beach, supermarket… A few additional swipes and you have a colour that is buildable and more intense.

I have to say that I found this product really beneficial whilst enjoying a day at the gym and spa. I like to wear a little makeup to the gym; mascara and lipstick are my two essentials. I don't like the natural shape of my lips and so wouldn't wear a balm only, but a heavily lined lip when you have no makeup on can look weird. That's where I found the Lip Glows helpful - they added a touch of colour and definition without being as dramatic as lipstick, plus gave long-lasting hydration, even in the sauna (where I'd normally wear a balm anyway).